I know, I know! I’ve been a bad blogger. It seems like I go through phases – reflective and active. And sometimes I forget to write (oh and think) while I’m super busy. I actually think that this would help manage my stress – I fin that writing and talking are how I am best able to process what’s going on. Some people process very differently (like J. For example)- but for me, words explain how I feel.
Some big things have happened. I was so busy writing about my race that I Forgot to mention that J. And I moved in together. Moving two people was tough- but I love our home together! It wad definitely a process, involving not only unpacking and decorating and buying, but also some internal adjustments about what it means to share a space with a partner. Though things come up (and really, things cone up throughout life- there are always things that need figuring out!) it really feels like home. And I love that. Do you know that song, “Home is wherever I’m with you?” yeah. Like that
I also started a new job. It doesn’t seem so new now, buy it’s really only been a few months! Many of you probably already know that I was pretty miserable in my job last year. It was really hard, and I felt helpless and weak and hurt. It took a long time, but I finally worked up the courage to just quit. And then I found a new job, and it’s been an exciting whirlwind!
A lot has been going on. As I write, I’m sitting on a plane, waiting for take-off. Like I said, I’m a busy girl. Anyways, I’m looking forward to more writing and reflection.